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The basic principle to keep in mind is this: Everything in your friendship will be a means to an end, and you'll find that you have a hard time enjoying the moment with them. A genuine friend, on the other hand, will never hold the friendship hostage to conditions.

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There is nothing wrong with that. If it's never convenient, or you feel like you're the only one going out of your way, then stop if it bothers you. I'm not the one being used, but I think my best friend is being used by her other friends. I told this to someone else, but they just assumed I was jealous.

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