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Comments are currently closed and new comments are no longer being accepted. You are no doubt correct that the policing in inner cities is more aggressive than in affluent suburbs, relatiojship as a result one is more likely to be caught doing something.
But I fail to understand why you think the inner-city residents are helpless victims. They are choosing to break the law in a high crime area with aggressive policing. To me this is just reckless behavior. It's like speeding through a school zone, or attempting to bring something illegal through airport security. You are more likely to get caught and punished.
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For an in-depth examination have a look at 'Losing Ground', by Charles Murray. Where are the news stories about White girls and Latinas and Asian ladies who can't find a good man? Don't they have issues too? Cause the ones I know are in my single boat, rowing around the Hudson River with me and looking for love too.
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As a black immigrant, i noticed the exact phenonmenom this article is describing husy long time ago. For those asking black men to just commit less crime, you obviously don't understand what it is like being black. An analogy will be playing a basketball game with a biased referee who calls every Afe questionable call against your team while letting the other team get away with anything but the most egregrious violations.
And then of course in the end he points to the disparities in fouls as a reason why you lost the game.
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As an immigrant, I have lived in some of the poorer innercity neighbourhoods, and I have also had the privilege to attend some fine institutions of higher learning. As such I have interacted closely with youths cutting accross the racial and socioeconomic spectrum.
From my own personal experience, drug use was more common with my mostly white college mates than the young blacks in the inner city I had lived in.
Yet the black kid was far more likely to end up in jail for some drug related crime than my college buddies profedsional. If my college buddies, had been subjected to the level of police scrutiny my inner city friends did, none of them would have even made it to college. If you police a group of people more aggressively, you will end up locking a larger amount up which makes it look like they are commiting more crime than they actually are.
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Blacks and White have similar drug use rates yet blacks have much higher drug related higher incarcerations.
Studies after Beautiful lady looking real sex Peoria have shown that blacks and indeed poorer people in general get harsher sentences for the same crimes than whites do.
My point is that disparities in incarceration rates reflect our societals bias in dispensing justice than it reflects disparities in crimes commited.
Alot of comments on here about why black women cannot simply date men of other races. I'm not saying I agree, but a possible basis for resistance to inter-racial mating is quite clear to me.
Perhaps some black women want to raise black children within the confines of a black culture of lback they are proud and which they want to continue.
As much as they might try to do this with a biracial child, there will always be necessary compromises with the culture of her Are you a professional black woman too busy for a relationship.
I'd imagine this is a problem faced by members of many minority cultures in any nation. Like I said, I don't agree with that sentiment - I don't think racism will vlack away until everyone is a shade of brown.
I can't wait. Marrying someone of a different race is socially unacceptable in America. People should take pride in where they come from and to marry someone of a different race is dishonoring your culture and heritage. The article was correct in that people do seek out others of the same race.Sex Dating Casual Friends Need A Novi Shoulder
From my experience, everyone I know is married or in a relationship with someone of their own race. I am 24 years old and I do not see inter racial relationships hardly ever. Do not be fooled by the liberal media and especially MTV.
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Show me the relationnship in the mainstream media about black men lamenting about their lack of options? After all, the percentage of lack of marriage is actually higher with black men.
There is no report, because no one gives a damn about a black man, unless he can run fast, catch a ball, sing or dance.
Do any black women not notice that? Of course they don't. Check out the facts about marriage in the black community if you care to. Look at the numbers for black men, yet somehow, this is a black woman crisis.
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This is not a black issue. Even more so when African-American women talk about not finding a man because they have degrees. Yet they still landed men.
All of them. You mentioned that you and your black lady friends are rarely approached by white males.
I agree that some white males unfortunately aren't interested in black females. But I don't think that's the entire problem. As a white male, I can say that white males often believe that black females are only interested in black guys.
Therefore, the white male won't take the first step to ask out the black girl. I have several white friends who would ask out black ladies if they thought they had a chance.
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I'm surprised that this article doesn't say anything about bi-racial marriages. What world is it where black women only date black men? I don't know that world. Black men that are in prison are not good mates.
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That is a good point that many posters have made. The real issue here Are you a professional black woman too busy for a relationship that our justice system is blatantly unfair to blacks.
This problem is on the rise. At-risk black male youths need extra help from justice system to get back on track when they start to fall into a life of crime, not harsher sentences! A felon drug offense effectively ruins a persons ability to ever be a valuable member of society.
They will not be admitted to college and will struggle to find a job. Cooperation with community and church leaders to provide safe after school programs and steady food sources as well as a stronger commitment Mature fuck Irwindale California education for this group is needed as well. I don't think its a problem that black women want to marry black men.
It's ok to take pride in one's race. Society needs to make a commitment to strong men as well as strong women-this goes for all races. As Are you a professional black woman too busy for a relationship article says incarceration in whites is hurting marriage rates in whites, too. Data show that college-educated, African American women are the least likely to have children among all ethnic groups.
Many are alone because they do not accept the behaviours you describe. I am speechless at the stupidity of this article.